A Very Good Reason Why
You Should Call Him First

Here is a  good reason why you should call him.  This is an awesome topic that is going to solve the confusion you've been having about if you should or shouldn't call him after a date.

Every one says you should avoid calling him first, meanwhile there is a fight going on inside you.  One part of you isn't going  to call him and the other part of you do want to call him.

You also heard from your closes friends and families that you should wait for him to call you  first.

And Why is that?

Because if he calls you first, you are going to feel special, important and wanted.  

So what should you do?...

To Call Him or Not To Call Him... 
That's The Question

If you decide not to call him, you're doing the right thing.   Just be sure you keep yourself empowered.  You may want to spend some time doing things you love to do:

• Reading your favorite book.
• Taking your yoga class 
• If dancing is your passion, then dance like nobody's watching
• Activate your creativity.  
• Go out with your girl friends and have FUN!

Avoid calling or send him texts if...

   You Are Already Mad At Him

Is useless.  If you feel like calling to ask him why he has not call you or to tell him how upset you are feeling at the moment...Please don't.  He is not going to be excited about that.

Instead, write down on a piece of paper exactly how you feel about him, at this same moment.  Don't run from the feeling, let it be.  After you are done, you can burn it, shred it or rip it apart.  You will feel way much better.

Once you do, you may go ahead and  contact him.  These are 5 helpful tips to calling a guy first and to enjoy a pleasant conversation.

 5 Helpful Tips For Calling A Guy First

Tip Number 1:  Since you want to know where the relationship is heading, there is a way to find out.

Call him to give him something he needs from you. 

And what is that?...

A Feedback. give him a complement about the date. 

• " I love Italian food! I'm so glad you picked the Maladoglia restaurant. I felt so good afterward."

Tip Number 2:  Whatever you say, talk about your experience only. Never, ever about him.

• "I had so much fun surfing, I can't believe I did not go surfing before.  I told my cousin all about the big wave"

This way he'll know is so much fun to be with you.

Tip Number 3:  Be Positive.  When talking about how the date went, only mention the good things. All the negative should be kept off the conversation, at least for now. You want to give him the impression that you are super easy to please, easy to be with. Being negative will make you sound impossible to make happy.

Tip Number 4:  Avoid Being His Adviser:  Advise him on how to do anything if he isn't asking is an automatic turn off. He needs to feel he has great things to offer to you. 

• "I know a better place where we can go and have dinner. A friend of a friend recommended this fantastic place" 

This is one of those things you want to avoid saying to him.

Tip Number 5:  Avoid Helping Him: This may sound like impossible to believe yet guys are always willing to help us, women. They rarely need any help from you so avoid helping him with anything. " I could help you clean up your apartment so we can go" out in the afternoon?  is a MUST AVOID saying.

The good side of it is that he'll be happy to help you with everything.

The real way to guy's  heart is   through giving him complements. This approach is what actually how you win BIG with him.

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